The Woodlands Presents: A Historic Garden Week Adventure
Spring is the perfect time to explore the beauty and history of Old Town Alexandria. Join The Woodlands for a special outing during Virginia’s Historic Garden Week and enjoy an exclusive look at some of the area’s most stunning homes and gardens. This self-guided tour features five private homes and gardens, showcasing beautiful architecture, landscaping, and design.
Event Info:
Old Town Alexandria House & Garden Walking Tour
Saturday, April 26, 2025 | 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.
Tickets: $55 per person (includes transportation, admissions, and light refreshments)
Don’t miss this chance to experience the charm of Old Town Alexandria in full bloom.
Seats are limited – RSVP by April 18, 2025 by calling 703-667-9800 and ask for Barbara Kiker
Call (703) 667-9800 or email: marketing@thewoodlandsccrc.com

Downsizing Seminar on March 21st
Planning for your next move doesn’t have to be stressful!
Join us for a free seminar where downsizing experts will share a simple, step-by-step approach to organizing and decluttering in preparing for a smooth transition to your next residence.
what you will gain:
• practical tips to simplify the downsizing process
• an organized plan for selling your home
• a proactive approach to your next chapter
DATE: Friday, March 21, 2025
TIME: 10:30 – 11:30 A.M.
PLACE: 4320 Forest Hill Drive, Fairfax, VA 22030
Enjoy light refreshments, connect with others, and get expert advice to make your move easier.
Seats are limited – RSVP today!
Call (703) 667-9801 or email: marketing@thewoodlandsccrc.com

Author Diana Parsell Discussing Her New Book
Join us at The Woodlands on Friday, March 14 at 10:30 AM for a special author event with Diana Parsell, as she discusses her new book, Eliza Scidmore: The Trailblazing Journalist Behind Washington’s Cherry Trees! Discover the incredible story of Eliza Scidmore, the adventurous woman who traveled the world and fought to bring the beloved cherry blossoms to D.C. Just in time for peak bloom, don’t miss this fascinating journey through history! 🌸
If interested in attending, please call 703-667-9800 and ask for Barbara Kiker

March Resident Panel Discussion
Join us at The Woodlands Retirement Community for an exclusive Resident Panel event! Hear firsthand from current residents as they share their personal experience and the reasons behind their decisions to embrace a maintenance-free, stress-free lifestyle. Following the discussion, enjoy a complimentary luncheon hosted by Woodlands residents, and explore our model apartments with a self-guided tour.
Discover how making the move to The Woodlands has enhanced their daily lives, provided peace of mind, and fostered a vibrant, welcoming community. Whether you’re considering a change or simply curious, this is a wonderful opportunity to ask questions and gain valuable insights.
We encourage you to RSVP to this event. It is a great opportunity to learn more about the benefits of retirement living at The Woodlands!
Event Details
Date: Friday, March 7, 2025
Time: 10:30 a.m.
Location: 4320 Forest Hill Drive
Fairfax, VA 22030
Please RSVP by Monday, March 3 by calling Karen at 703-667-9801 or email marketing@thewoodlandsccrc.com

Local Marine Veteran Receives Quilt of Valor
Jim Wescoat, 103, is honored before friends and family.

Jim Wescoat was born on Dec. 7, 1921, in Atlantic City, N.J. Exactly 20 years later, after Pearl Harbor was bombed on Dec. 7, 1941, he joined the Marine Corps.
Now 103, he’s the only Marine WWII veteran living at The Woodlands, a retirement community in Fairfax. And on Jan. 10, he received a patriotic quilt there from the Quilts of Valor Foundation (QOV), which makes quilts for military veterans.
“He’s given a lot to his country, and we believe he’s most deserving of this award,” said Madonna Rabatin, the foundation’s Virginia coordinator. “It’s an expression of gratitude from a grateful nation.”
She was among the women who together made his quilt. And her sister, Toni Rabatin, also with the foundation, explained its origin and purpose. A national organization, it was founded in 2003 by a Blue Star mom, Catherine Roberts.
“With a son deployed in Iraq as a gunner atop a Humvee, she had a vision of a post-deployed warrior in the middle of the night, struggling with his war demons, while sitting on his bed, wrapped in a quilt,” said Toni Rabatin. “The quilt not only comforted the soldier but warded off the demons. [Thus], Quilts of Valor was founded with the message, ‘Quilts Equal Healing.’”
“The foundation’s mission is to cover active-duty service members and veterans touched by war with comforting and healing Quilts of Valor,” she continued. “While many bear the physical scars of battle, many others have been [affected] in less-visible ways by conflicts past and present.” Then, addressing Wescoat directly, she said they’d come to honor “your service, sacrifice and commitment to our Constitution. We’re indebted and thankful to you for taking the oath to defend our freedom.”
Since its inception, Quilts of Valor has garnered more than 11,000 volunteer quiltmakers and awarded more than 400,000 quilts worldwide. Rabatin said each quilt is created with love, care and gratitude. And she told Wescoat, “Your Quilt of Valor comes from the hearts of many thankful women and men. Through this quilt, you’ll forever be in our hearts.”
Noting that a quilt has three layers, she said the top features many colors, shapes and fabrics representing the many communities and individuals in the organization. The batting – the filling in the center – provides warmth. “It represents our hope that this quilt will bring warmth, comfort, peace and healing to you who receive it,” said Rabatin. “The backing is the strength supporting the other layers and represents the recipient’s strength and the support of your family, our community and our nation. And each stitch holding the layers together represents love, gratitude and, sometimes, the tears of the maker.”
Then, as her sister Madonna wrapped Wescoat’s quilt around him, Rabatin said, “With our deepest appreciation, we say, ‘Thank you for your service and welcome home.’”
Next, fellow Woodlands resident Ron Gallier read a poem he’d written about Wescoat, calling him “Woodlands’ pride and joy and every resident’s friend. It’s not to his age that I raise my glass, but to his incomparable touch of class.”
All the residents were gathered for the ceremony, and the guests included one of Wescoat’s daughters, Martha Wescoat-Andes of Fairfax. With her beaming proudly beside him, he told everyone, “This is incredible. I am so very, very thankful. The thoughtfulness and effort you put into this is outstanding and very much appreciated.
Reprinted with permission from the Fairfax Connection.

2024 Senior Olympics




At The Woodlands Retirement Community, we celebrate every achievement and promote an active, vibrant lifestyle.

Hitching a Ride on the Rhine by Carol Landa Christensen
In 1959 I led a group of six adults (diverse backgrounds: Montana, California, New York City, etc.) on a month long AYH (American Youth Hostels) tour of Central Europe. I tacked on an extra two weeks to travel on my own at the end of the group tour. A young woman in my group was meeting a friend in Frankfurt, so the 3 of us decided to travel onward together.
On the final night at the Frankfurt hostel, we struck up a conversation which initiated the most unusual travel experience of my life. A fellow hosteller claimed it was possible to hitch a free ride on a Rhine River barge. “Just go to the harbor master’s office in Frankfurt and inquire.”
Deciding we had nothing to lose, by mid-morning we arrived at the gate, each lugging a bedroll and a single backpack. We were given permission to walk along the quay and ask each captain if we could hitch a ride toward Amsterdam. After several turndowns, one captain said “yes”. It was unbelievable this was happening.
We spoke no German and he, his Frau, and their nine-year-old son spoke no English. Somehow we managed to agree we could ride with them, but we only had one hour before they would get underway. Meanwhile, we must buy food supplies (anything not requiring cooking or refrigeration – cold cuts, breads, oranges) and return no later than 1 o’clock. A mad scramble, but we made it.
Then we sat! Hour after creeping hour! It turned out that our barge had no engine, and their tugboat didn’t arrive that afternoon as expected. We didn’t get underway, hitched up to the tug, until dawn the next morning.
We lived and slept up in the small pilot house, sitting and laying on the wood floor, wrapped around the various pieces of equipment. The captain and family had a compact, but larger cabin directly below, and the two-man crew had a tiny cabin of their own at the far-off rear of the long coal-filled barge. There also was a small bathroom (sink and toilet) below our cabin, which was shared by all.
In most places, the riverbanks were filled with shrubbery, so we weren’t gazing into people’s backyards. This meant that during the daytime there was little to do except wave to other barges and boats and observe life on board: laundry drying on lines, perhaps a moped or bike on board for land excursions, children, and pets (dogs, cats, caged birds), potted plants, maybe a grille.
One afternoon the Frau invited us into their cabin for a bowl of homemade hot soup. This was a rare and wonderful treat after unending dry sandwiches. Mostly using sign language and drawing pictures, we learned the family had an apartment in one of the river towns. There the Frau and son lived during the winter months while he went to school. They also had an older daughter who was married to an American and lived in Georgia (perhaps the reason they said “yes” to taking us aboard in the first place). In total, we spent three days going from Frankfurt to Bonn and learned the rhythms of river barging. They anchored grouped together in a wider section of the river every night and moved on early each morning.
Evenings were a social time. Barge families met and greeted old friends. A small grocery boat wove in and out, pulling alongside to sell fresh food items like fruit, vegetables, milk, bread, and soda. The young crew members went rowing off with their buddies.
All told it was a truly unique and memorable travel experience.
Carol moved from Florida to The Woodlands to be close to her family. She stays in touch with friends every week using zoom, Skype, email, and FaceTime. Carol enjoys The Woodlands relaxed lifestyle and treasures her time walking on The Woodlands trails and working in her garden plot which rewards her generously every year. She appreciates The Woodlands library which supplements her regularly scheduled trips to the local library. This fall, Carol is participating in the Senior Olympics in Rummikub with other residents.

Ulrich and Brigitte Boesch
Brigitte and Ulrich have been married 10 years and moved to The Woodlands from Oakton. Ulrich was born in Bulgaria and grew up in the German part of Switzerland. Brigitte was born in Switzerland and had a career as a schoolteacher, then social worker working with the blind. They met at a party in St. Gallen when Ulrich, a widower, was visiting his brother.
Ulrich worked for a company that made and installed printing presses for newspapers. He speaks Bulgarian, Swiss, German, Spanish, Russian and Italian. As an outgoing and energetic young man, he was the installing/engineering supervisor for newspaper printing presses in many countries. From installing printing presses in Moscow for Pravda to Buenos Aires, and instructing the operators how to use them, he traveled the globe. The company eventually installed him as a Manager in the USA branch.
Ulrich and his wife moved into Oakton in 1978 and established themselves in the community. Buying out the company, he successfully built a new printing supply company. Talking to him, I’d never thought about printing presses having used lead plates for printing in different languages, especially before offset plates were used and are still used for newspaper printing. Did you ever think about how Armstrong linoleum patterns are made? Ulrich’s company had the contracts for printing press color controls with many companies until he retired.
Brigitte still has a rental flat in Switzerland, where she lived and worked close to the family. Ulrich and Brigette had a favorite apartment in sunny Spain where they could see the beach and the mountains from the balcony, and they have cruised the world twice, both eastward and westward. The two of them speak German when together. Brigitte speaks with her sister weekly and other friends in Switzerland. Comfortable with computers, texts, and email, she rarely uses her excellent English. She orders our current best sellers in German.
Now that their Oakton house is sold, they have time to think about their new lifestyle at The Woodlands. They wanted a neighborhood feel that was similar to their single-family home neighborhood in Oakland. They particularly liked that their apartment, which has beautiful park-like views from every window, and activities and eating area are together in one building. When they are not participating in activities with their friendly neighbors at The Woodlands, Brigitte and Ulrich enjoy the sunshine and beach at their condo In Pompano Beach, Florida in addition to trips home to Switzerland.

Thanks for Joining Our July Panel Discussion: Embracing & Navigating Life in a Retirement Community
Thank you to everyone who joined us for the Panel Discussion at The Woodlands! It was a fantastic event where we explored how to embrace and navigate life in a retirement community. Special thanks to our panelists, residents Donna Crean and Dan Feighery, and Lainie Walsh, Administrator from The Gardens At Fair Oaks, for their valuable contributions and for answering your questions.
Never Retire Your Ability to Make a Splash!

Dive into our awesome aquatics classes — available Monday through Friday, mornings and afternoons. The pool temperature is always set at an inviting 90 degrees. Classes are limited to eight per session. For more information about our class schedule and to sign up, please contact our class coordinator, Yene, at 703-667-9800.

Our July Panel Discussion: Embracing & Navigating Life in a Retirement Community
Wednesday, July 17, 2024, Beginning at 10:30 A.M.
Date: Wednesday, July 17, 2024
Location: The Woodlands Retirement Community 4320 Forest Hill Drive, Fairfax, VA 22030
Time: 10:30 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.
RSVP: Monday, July 8, by 12:00 p.m. Noon
to Karen at: (703) 667-9801
or email: marketing@thewoodlandsccrc.com
Join us for this enlightening panel discussion. Woodlands residents will share insights and experiences on thriving in retirement. Discover the keys to maintaining an active lifestyle, fostering social connections and enhancing wellbeing in a supportive community.
If you are considering a move to a retirement community, this event promises valuable information and engaging conversations to help you make the most of this phase of life. Please join us for this great opportunity to learn, connect, and celebrate.
Lunch will be provided.
Self-Guided Tour of available apartments.
Never Retire Your Ability to Make a Splash!

Dive into our awesome aquatics classes — available Monday through Friday, mornings and afternoons. The pool temperature is always set at an inviting 90 degrees. Classes are limited to eight per session. For more information about our class schedule and to sign up, please contact our class coordinator, Yene, at 703-667-9800.

The Woodlands Retirement Community Resident’s Story: Dan Feighery

Photo caption: Dan Feighery, Don Allen, and Jean Feighery welcome Don Allen to the Bistro and neighborhood. Don was a student of Dan’s and in April, will be a neighbor!
The following story was shared by Dan Feighery during a recent presentation by three residents at The Woodlands to a group of prospective residents considering moving to a retirement community.
“We started with a small two-bedroom house in 1966 and by 1984 we had a three-level, plus basement, house, an acre of land and a 200 foot long driveway. With each move we accumulated more things!
About 15 years ago a medical procedure required my having a short rehab which made me think that, at some point, staying in our house might become a challenge. As we age, our house ages!
In the early 2000s Jean’s mother lived alone in their rural Monticello, New York house. Then in the fall of 2004, we had a phone call from the hospital saying they could not release her to live by herself and that they suspected Alzheimer’s.
We needed to find some place near where we lived. We were appalled at what we saw. A FFX Government Center advisor mentioned a new place called The Gardens at Fair Oaks. Mom moved into their Memory Care Unit. After a few months of proper food, care and medication alignment, she moved upstairs to an assisted living apartment. She lived there happily for about two years before she died in 2006. This was a textbook case of an elderly person trying to care for themselves day-to-day, that had not worked out.

When I was in my early 70s, we were still active with the Lifelong Learning Center at George Mason University. We learned about senior housing, activities of daily living and Continuous Care Retirement Communities ranging from Independent Living to nursing care and the costs involved.
I thought to myself, I’ll probably die before my wife, Jean, and I didn’t want her living alone in the house like her mother had in her later years. I put together an Excel spreadsheet to project costs versus income and investments.
When I was almost 76, we decided instead of paying taxes, as well as heating and cooling unused spaces, and clearing fallen trees, etc, we would review literature from various facilities, planning to sell our home when I turned 80. Over the next few years, we visited several communities and fine-tuned our thinking.
This is Not Just a Real Estate Decision. It is a Way of Life Decision!
We met a retired official from the Federal Emergency Management Agency who said he moved into The Woodlands in 2011 and had a glowing opinion of the community. Since both The Gardens and The Woodlands are run by The Bainum family, he suggested we visit with Ellen.

After an initial conversation with Ellen, we focused on understanding The Woodlands as a possible retirement home. It was a relatively small population of retirees from diverse jobs. We downloaded the Residence and Care Agreement which had “rules to live by.”
Jean and I attended an informal resident/management get-together over coffee and snacks. Chatting with some of the residents, we got the feeling that The Woodlands was more like a friendly neighborhood rather than a hotel or senior apartment.
We attended a weekday dinner and Sunday brunch and a couple of “Community Meetings” with updates by the staff on what was happening in the community.
Before making a final decision, we also took a copy of everything we would have to sign to our lawyer to be sure we understood and needed to get clarification on a couple of things. I was 76 when we then finalized which apartment design we preferred and paid the $1,000 to be on the waiting list, anticipating a year or two wait.
A few months later we had a phone call from Ellen advising us we were number three on a waitlist for an Oaks II design which was becoming available in about three months. We looked back over our notes and financial projections. European Opera and photo trips had to be cut. We said yes and called a real estate agent.

Making the Decision to Move to a Senior Retirement Community
Our decision came down to three quality of life factors, plus the cost considerations.
- We would be close to places important to us. We wanted to stay involved with old friends, churches, George Mason University and a newborn We wanted indoor parking for one car since we remained active in the Northern Virginia area.
- The Woodlands was a relatively small retirement community with a diverse population of people we thought we would like to know better.
- The We just had a good feeling when we visited and spoke with both folks who lived here and staff as well.
Special Features that Convinced Us We Made the Right Move
The Dining Room – The Bainum family has made dining a high priority in their senior living communities. Small details add up to a wonderful experience, such as:
- Tablecloths in the dining room
- You can reserve a particular table
- Servers call you by name
- Menus are published for the following week and you can also ask for adjustments to the day’s menu.
- You can order the meal to go and eat in your
One meal per day is covered by the fee. You can carry over or use a meal credit for a guest, etc. The Bistro is open for lunch. You can charge, pay or use a meal credit.
Sense of Community – We enjoy getting to know other senior residents and becoming friends with some. Not all our neighbors were born in the United States. Some of the other countries include Australia, England, Germany, and Switzerland.
Casual Social Interactions – a variety of daily, weekly and annual events create a very active independent living lifestyle for residents. Morning round tables, ROMEO’s (a group of Retired Old Men Eating Out that go to a diner each Friday morning), Juliet’s coffee, outdoor barbecues, craft showcase, Great Courses, Senior Olympics, table games and family swims are just a few of the many activities that make The Woodlands such a special place to live.

The Setting: The views out the windows in this 17-acre community can include woods, walking paths and pond, plus individual gardens in the back. All of the amenities are conveniently located in one building including the indoor pool, fitness center, yoga studio, library and movie theater.
Maintenance-free Living – The snow is cleared off residents’ cars, or the cars are moved inside to clear driveways parking. Beautifully landscaped grounds and gardens, all cared for by a professional team of friendly workers who take pride in the appearance of The Woodlands.
Scheduled Transportation – Bonita Lestina Concert Series and other entertainment venues, Oakton Library and museums are just some of the area attractions which are easily accessible with several Woodlands vehicles including a large van and sedans. Regularly scheduled routes to nearby shopping and scheduled medical appointments are convenient with The Woodlands available vehicles.
There are many options for senior living in the Fairfax-northern Virginia area. But the combination of the Bainum family’s extensive experience in senior care communities and their values and priorities of creating a family-oriented living environment for each of their residents convinced Jean and me that we made the right decision.
Contact them today to see if they are the right senior living community for you!
Meet Our Residents and Enjoy Lunch On Us

Join Us for Our Lunch & Learn Event On January 25th

The New Year is the perfect time to join us at The Woodlands. Our residents would like to cordially invite you to an exclusive “Lunch & Learn” event, where you can learn first hand why “Never Retire” is more than just a slogan; it’s a way of life at The Woodlands.
During our special panel discussion you’ll have a chance to ask questions about what inspired our residents to select The Woodlands, what they love about the lifestyle and more. Their presentation will be followed by a complimentary lunch. Reserve your seat today!
Register for Our “Lunch & Learn” Event
Date: Thursday, January 25, 2024
Time: 11:00 – Resident Panel Discussion
12:00 – Lunch with Residents
1:30 – Tour of our amenities and select residences
To reserve your seat, call 571-559-7294 or email Ellen at elimburg@thewoodlandsccrc.com or Karen at marketing@thewoodlandsccrc.com.
Never Retire Your Ability to Make a Splash!

Dive into our awesome aquatics classes — available Monday through Friday, mornings and afternoons. The pool temperature is always set at an inviting 90 degrees. Classes are limited to eight per session. For more information about our class schedule and to sign up, please contact our class coordinator, Yene, at 703-667-9800.
Never Retire Your Love for a Great Deal

Enjoy two months’ free rent!
We’re kicking off the New Year with some significant savings. Now, when you move in within 60 days of placing your deposit, you’ll receive two months’ rent for FREE! This offer is only available for select apartment styles.
To tour available residences and discover our luxury lifestyle, call 571-559-7294 or email Ellen at elimburg@thewoodlandsccrc.com or Karen at marketing@thewoodlandsccrc.com.
